The Sinclair Institute Better Sex Guide A Lover's Guide To Self Pleasuring DVD. Love Yourself, Love Your Partner! One of the best things about today's sexual attitudes is that masturbation is no longer the taboo subject it once was. Far from being forbidden, masturbation can teach us more about our own bodies and our own pleasures, and can even have healthy benefits. Once you know what excites you, you can share it with your lover to help you both reach new heights of sexual pleasure. A Lovers Guide To Self Pleasuring explodes the myths about masturbation and why it has been seen as dirty or naughty. You will also learn from sex educators about the benefits of masturbation and how it can work for you. Run time 60 minutes.